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"A family based in north London is looking for an extraordinary and qualified educator to guide their youngest child on his first steps to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this advertisement, you might naturally skip the wording "beginning" as simple a turn of phrase.

But, it might be the most significant aspect of this unique position posting, as it aims to hire a tutor for a 12-month-old.

Many of submissions have now been submitted since the unidentified family advertised their request for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "an exceptional individual".

Over the last few weeks, the listing has received notice throughout the press, with numerous wondering why?

Progressive Approach

The CEO, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is supporting the family in their hunt, stated that notwithstanding early skepticism, he found the plan "visionary", and "progressive".

When he met the family, he noted they appreciated the unusual nature of their demand, and how early in age their son is.

However, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their older child was five, and by that point "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What precisely did the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert replied. "How you eat, how you speak".

He stated the elder child had absorbed "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had assumed their cultural habits. The family explained to him they did not want the same situation to repeat itself with their infant.

The plan: To hire a British tutor, who should speak with Received Pronunciation, to influence the baby right from the beginning.

Subtle Influence

"Much of the learning at the outset here is kind of osmotic," said Adam.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will adopt the British traits they want to impart.

He explained the tutor must be somebody who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – the same kinds of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The educator just has to be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed him the selected educator should ideally also have understanding of or enthusiasm in riding, alpine skiing, the arts and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a diverse set of passions.

Additionally though, he said the family desired the tutor to register the child on a variety of lessons so the child would be "horseback riding and starting an tool by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son become a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and open doors.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a class statement," he adds.

However, despite all this instruction in "English culture", might the child absorb so-called cultural leaning from the multicultural family he lives with anyway?

"Absolutely", said he. "They understand this may not work, but they've just taken the attitude of, 'we should try and we'll proceed as early as we can', because the cost of it is not relevant," he stated.

Impractical

Several in the tutoring industry who share these concerns.

Peter Cui, chief executive of Blue Education, who supplies individual instructors, wrote that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be lived into, not engineered."

The expert wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the United Kingdom at the period of childhood, and had been raised knowing and living both cultures. He continued to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that a single person can serve as a embodiment of Britishness, an individual who can somehow transplant the attributes of a British gentleman onto a one-year-old child, seems to me naive and impractical," he wrote.

"From my perspective, engaging a quintessentially British tutor from babyhood will will not instantly create the outcome they want.

"I wasn't provided with that kind of mentor, and however I have been privileged enough to experience numerous of the experiences they hope for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, personal identity cannot be imposed from the outside influences; it must be selected, and it must come from within."

Purchasing UK Culture

Of course, English culture is something Adam hopes can be educated – and commercialized.

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